It certainly feels as if summer has arrived in our little corner of the world (west Cheshire) and golf courses all over the place are shrugging off the winter blues and beginning to look their best. Just as well, because we are rolling in to that time of year that Ladies’ and Gents’ Captains’ Days are looming and, let’s face it, there have been poor pickings in that department over the last couple of years.
With all the challenges that golfers have faced, we as members must collectively offer up thanks to all those who took on two years of captaincy during the pandemic instead of one. This unsung band of folk learned how to conduct club business via Zoom, how to run Covid friendly get-togethers when they were allowed and how to be the communication link par excellence between the staff and members. And frequently their big day didn’t happen at all!
So, this blog sends very best wishes, not only to the current captains putting the finishing touches to all the details for the highlight of their year, but also to those immediate past captains who have relinquished most of their responsibilities and, hopefully, will be able to enjoy a stress-free time on the golf course.

Invitations are flooding in from everywhere at this time of year from busy, busy captains. This one from Roma English, renowned rules referee and ladies’ captain of a famous wee club in Norn Iron.
There is much evidence that golfers are beginning to travel further afield again. Mary Hafeman, a pal and former American Curtis Cup player, who was on the opposing side to me at St Pierre back in the day, is a renowned teaching professional in the States and runs a successful business bringing her compatriots on golf trips. It’s great to have her back in the UK and she currently has a group playing some of the great courses in Scotland. A visit to the fabulously spectacular Castle Stuart in Inverness last weekend saw her hook up with Castle Stuart’s teaching professional Gillian Stewart, who also played in that long ago match at St Pierre. The two of them dusted off their clubs and had a friendly fourball and no doubt there was a lot of reminiscing.
My stand-out memory of that St Pierre Curtis Cup match was that the Americans sent their woollen trousers off to the local dry cleaners. They had realised that although it was June it was going to be nowhere near warm enough for shorts and that despite bulging suitcases the temperatures dictated they would be wearing the woolly trews most days. Imagine the horror of the Americans and the hilarity in the British and Irish camp when the trousers arrived back, every single pair having shrunk? Amazingly, they don’t look that out of place in this era of seven/eighths trousers and crops, but, boy, were they peculiar looking back then!
I’ve often expounded on how I value the strands and connections formed through golf – strands that span decades and cross the globe. Any week is improved when an email from Pia Nilsson pops into the inbox. Pia is an educator extraordinaire, a former player of high standing and now an inspirational coach and developer of life skills.
She and her partner Lynn Marriott formed the phenomenally successful Vision 54 company and this blog has over the years unreservedly recommended their books and teachings. Pia and Lynn, like Mary Hafeman, will also shortly be crossing the Atlantic, returning as they do most years to Pia’s native Sweden. They take three weeks to decompress and recharge the batteries ready for more empowering but energy-sapping work.
These little snippets of news about, and from, old pals, with whom one shares a common back story going back years, have always meant a lot to me. They have been a bright part in a difficult last ten days in my journey back to health post Covid and a welcome escape from the medical world I find myself wrapped up in. It all helps me feel connected to the game despite the fact I’m not yet ready to take to the fairways (or even the rough!) yet.And now I am immersing myself in the second of the men’s majors, the PGA, which is being played at Southern Hills in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I was fortunate enough to be there in 2007 when Tiger won. Then, the championship was played in August and the temperatures were well over 100 degrees (Fahrenheit) every day. One of the difficulties was in keeping hydrated for five hours plus when doing commentary out on the course and matters weren’t helped by an officious marshal who refused to allow me a bottle of water from a drinks chest earmarked for the photographers. The man was apoplectic when a snapper strode past him, opened the cooler and extracted two ice cold bottles, both of which he handed to me. I could have married him on the spot – the photographer, not the marshal – as it was physically impossible to carry with you all the water you were going to require during the round. The temperatures should be much kinder at this time of year and more suitable for the usual suspects I’ll be rooting for.

Southern Hills in Tulsa. The walk from the final green up to the clubhouse was almost enough to finish me off in the August heat. [From the PGA Championship website]
As always, your guess is as good as mine. Have a good week.
Sadly, it was a limping and no longer indestructible Tiger that completed the first round. It’s a proper major when ‘the luck of the draw’ influences the outcome. Rory is in the ‘good side’ and making full use of it (so far). Fingers crossed!
Hope u r 100% better soon,you have had a rough time Maureen, thinking of you, Emer D xx
Best wishes for your recovery road Maureen and thanks for today’s offering. Look forward to you telling us about your return to play in the not too distant future,
Regards
Many thanks Paul. I just love your story to Patricia of your trip to White Hart Lane with your Dad.
Am hoping to be back into training in the near future, Emer, so we can have our fourball match again soon.
Agreed, Ivan. I’m getting superstitious in my old age so didn’t mention Rory. Every time I do he bombs out in the first round.
Maureen, it was fun seeing Gillian and catching up with her. I hope you get better soon! I look forward to seeing you at a Curtis cup match in the future. We had a great time so many years ago. You are right about how golf connects people. That’s the most important aspect to me – creating life long friends and memories! I think I still have those pants LOL.
It was great being able to travel w 23 people to Scotland! All the best! Mary
Sorry I couldn’t be part of that reunion in Castle Stuart. Gillian told me how much fun she’d had. Looking forward to seeing you at a future Curtis Cup!
Great! Can you forward me your email please. Mine is mhafe@aol.com. We maybe in England next time.
Maureen can you please send me your email address
Done!
Hi Mo
Greetings from Southern Hills! Just caught up with your blog this morning having been here refereeing this week. Thankfully not as hot this time, only 14 degrees(Celsius) on Saturday! Hope you are on the road to recovery. Cheers Cx
Hope you enjoyed it and it was stress free.